Now that I am married, I have learned that the best way to love others especially my husband is not to change him but to accept him and help him become the best version of himself. When I first met my husband online, I felt a profound sense of sympathy and understanding for him. The moment we first chatted online, I felt a great sense of appreciation and acceptance of who he is. I accepted him even though he said he is just poor and a disabled army veteran. I accepted him even if he is not so good in spelling because he has dyslexia. And I felt peace within me. I trusted him and I felt an immense willingness to be with him in spite of his shortcomings. By the way, he proposed marriage during our first chat online. I can’t believe he will do it because we haven’t met each other in person yet and we are still in the getting-to-know each other stage. But he trusted me too. I guess it was JESUS’ plan because I felt comfortable and happy chatting with him. He is a very respectful ma...
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